{"id":5527,"date":"2023-01-31T01:00:59","date_gmt":"2023-01-31T06:00:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pastelgoth.net\/blog\/?p=5527"},"modified":"2024-06-13T23:19:14","modified_gmt":"2024-06-14T03:19:14","slug":"book-im-glad-my-mom-died","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pastelgoth.net\/blog\/book-im-glad-my-mom-died\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m Glad My Mom Died"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"book-786\" class=\"bdb-book-info\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/pastelgoth.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/book_imgladmymomdied.png?fit=250%2C379&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"I&#039;m Glad My Mom Died\" class=\"alignright\"\/><strong>Title:<\/strong> I'm Glad My Mom Died<br \/><strong>Author:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/pastelgoth.net\/blog\/book-database\/author\/jennette-mccurdy\/\">Jennette McCurdy<\/a><br \/><strong>First Published:<\/strong> <span content=\"2022-08-09\">August 9, 2022<\/span><br \/><strong>Publisher:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/pastelgoth.net\/blog\/book-database\/publisher\/simon-schuster\/\">Simon & Schuster<\/a><br \/><strong>Pages:<\/strong> 319<br \/><strong>Genre:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/pastelgoth.net\/blog\/book-database\/genre\/memoir\/\">Memoir<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/pastelgoth.net\/blog\/book-database\/genre\/non-fiction\/\">Non-Fiction<\/a><br \/><strong>Format:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/pastelgoth.net\/blog\/book-database\/format\/hardcover\/\">Hardcover<\/a><br \/><strong>Source:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/pastelgoth.net\/blog\/book-database\/source\/library\/\">Library<\/a><br \/><strong>Rating:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/pastelgoth.net\/blog\/book-database\/rating\/5\/\"><span class=\"bdb-font-awesome-star-wrap\"><i class=\"fas fa-star\"><\/i><i class=\"fas fa-star\"><\/i><i class=\"fas fa-star\"><\/i><i class=\"fas fa-star\"><\/i><i class=\"fas fa-star\"><\/i><\/span><\/a><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/59364173-i-m-glad-my-mom-died\" target=\"_blank\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/pastelgoth.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/addtogoodreads.png?ssl=1\" align=\"left\" border=\"0\"\/><\/a><br \/><br \/><strong>Synopsis:<\/strong> <p>A heartbreaking and hilarious memoir by iCarly and Sam &amp; Cat star Jennette McCurdy about her struggles as a former child actor\u2014including eating disorders, addiction, and a complicated relationship with her overbearing mother\u2014and how she retook control of her life.<\/p>\n<p>Jennette McCurdy was six years old when she had her first acting audition. Her mother\u2019s dream was for her only daughter to become a star, and Jennette would do anything to make her mother happy. So she went along with what Mom called \u201ccalorie restriction,\u201d eating little and weighing herself five times a day. She endured extensive at-home makeovers while Mom chided, \u201cYour eyelashes are invisible, okay? You think Dakota Fanning doesn\u2019t tint hers?\u201d She was even showered by Mom until age sixteen while sharing her diaries, email, and all her income.<\/p>\n<p>In I\u2019m Glad My Mom Died, Jennette recounts all this in unflinching detail\u2014just as she chronicles what happens when the dream finally comes true. Cast in a new Nickelodeon series called iCarly, she is thrust into fame. Though Mom is ecstatic, emailing fan club moderators and getting on a first-name basis with the paparazzi (\u201cHi Gale!\u201d), Jennette is riddled with anxiety, shame, and self-loathing, which manifest into eating disorders, addiction, and a series of unhealthy relationships. These issues only get worse when, soon after taking the lead in the iCarly spinoff Sam &amp; Cat alongside Ariana Grande, her mother dies of cancer. Finally, after discovering therapy and quitting acting, Jennette embarks on recovery and decides for the first time in her life what she really wants.<\/p>\n<p>Told with refreshing candor and dark humor, I\u2019m Glad My Mom Died is an inspiring story of resilience, independence, and the joy of shampooing your own hair.<\/p>\n<strong>Get the Book:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3BviJPB\" target=\"_blank\">Amazon<\/a>\r\n<hr \/><\/div>\t\t<script type=\"application\/ld+json\">\n\t\t\t{\n\t\t\t\t\"@context\": \"https:\/\/schema.org\/\",\n\t\t\t\t\"@type\": \"Review\",\n\t\t\t\t\"datePublished\": \"2023-01-31T06:00:59+00:00\",\n\t\t\t\t\"description\": \"I'm Glad My Mom Died\",\n\t\t\t\t\"publisher\": {\n\t\t\t\t\t\"@type\": \"Organization\",\n\t\t\t\t\t\"name\": \"Radical Dreamer\"\t\t\t\t},\n\t\t\t\t\"url\": \"https:\\\/\\\/pastelgoth.net\\\/blog\\\/book-im-glad-my-mom-died\\\/\",\n\t\t\t\t\"itemReviewed\": {\n\t\t\t\t\t\"@type\": \"Book\",\n\t\t\t\t\t\"name\": \"I'm Glad My Mom Died\",\n\t\t\t\t\t\"author\": [\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t{\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\"@type\": \"Person\",\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\"name\": \"Jennette McCurdy\",\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\"sameAs\": \"https:\\\/\\\/pastelgoth.net\\\/blog\\\/book-database\\\/author\\\/jennette-mccurdy\\\/\"\t\t\t\t\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t],\n\t\t\t\t\t\"isbn\": \"\",\n\t\t\t\t\t\"numberOfPages\": 319,\n\t\t\t\t\t\"publisher\": {\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\"@type\": \"Organization\",\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\"name\": \"Simon & Schuster\"\t\t\t\t\t},\n\t\t\t\t\t\"image\": \"https:\\\/\\\/i0.wp.com\\\/pastelgoth.net\\\/blog\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/book_imgladmymomdied.png?fit=250%2C379&ssl=1\",\n\t\t\t\t\t\"datePublished\": \"2022-08-09T00:00:00+00:00\",\n\t\t\t\t\t\"sameAs\": \"https:\\\/\\\/www.goodreads.com\\\/book\\\/show\\\/59364173-i-m-glad-my-mom-died\",\n\t\t\t\t\t\"genre\": \"Memoir\"\t\t\t\t},\n\t\t\t\t\"author\": {\n\t\t\t\t\t\"@type\": \"Person\",\n\t\t\t\t\t\"name\": \"Jamie\",\n\t\t\t\t\t\"sameAs\": \"https:\\\/\\\/pastelgoth.net\\\/blog\\\/\"\t\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t, \"reviewRating\": {\n\t\t\t\t\t\"@type\": \"Rating\",\n\t\t\t\t\t\"ratingValue\": 5,\n\t\t\t\t\t\"bestRating\": 5\t\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t}\n\t\t<\/script>\n\t\t\n<h2>Review<\/h2>\n<p>I barely knew a thing about Jennette McCurdy when I picked up this book. I was already in college by the time that iCarly started airing so I missed that entire era of Nickelodeon shows. The great thing is, you don&#8217;t need to know a damn thing about Jennette to appreciate this memoir. Jennette McCurdy was a child actress, pushed into acting by her mother who is absolutely obsessed with stardom. The book details her life and her rocky relationship with her mother, all while navigating Hollywood fame. This book is a heavy hitter, exploring abuse, eating disorders, unhealthy relationships, mental health and therapy.<\/p>\n<p>I found the book engaging right from the get-go, Jennette is down to earth and at times sarcastic, she&#8217;s an easy narrator to follow. The narration in the early chapters involving Jennette&#8217;s childhood is simplistic and gradually becomes more complex and introspective as she narrates her life.<\/p>\n<p>Jennette&#8217;s experiences with her abusive mother and struggle with eating disorders hit really close to home for me. She details how hard she tried to please her mom at the expense of her own happiness and it was absolutely heartbreaking to read about. Jennette is both bitter toward her mother, but still loves her and holds her up on a pedestal as many children do, and I found this deeply relatable. The harsh title makes perfect sense by the end of the book, and it made me glad that Jennette is writing and doing better.<\/p>\n<p>This book has garnered a lot of attention since its debut and honestly, it is worth every bit of praise that it has received. If there was ever one celebrity book that I think deserves to be read it is this one, unequivocally. The book is a very good reminder of how we don&#8217;t really know anything about a person and their life behind the veneer of fame and success.<\/p>\n<h2>Quote<\/h2>\n<p><center><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cMy life purpose has always been to <strong>make Mom happy<\/strong>, to be who <em>she wants me to be<\/em>. So <em>without Mom<\/em>, <strong>who am I supposed<\/strong> to be now?\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><\/center><\/p>\n<h2>Content Warnings<\/h2>\n<span class=\"ubb-spoiler\"><a class=\"ubb-view-spoil\">View Spoiler &raquo;<\/a><span style=\"display: none;\" class=\"ubb-thespoil\">Child Abuse, Child Exploitation, Codependency, Disownment, Domestic Violence, Eating Disorders, Emotional Abuse, Harassment, Infidelity, Parent Death, Infidelity, Relationship Abuse, Sexual Abuse, Sexual Assault, Slut Shaming, Verbal Abuse <a class=\"ubb-hide-spoil\" style=\"cursor: hand; cursor: pointer;\">&laquo; Hide Spoiler<\/a><\/span><\/span>\n<h2>About the Author<\/h2>\n<div class=\"ubb-about-author\">\n<h3>About Jennette McCurdy<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/pastelgoth.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/author_jennettemccurdy.png?fit=200%2C200&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"alignleft ubb-about-author-photo\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/pastelgoth.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/author_jennettemccurdy.png?w=200&amp;ssl=1 200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/pastelgoth.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/author_jennettemccurdy.png?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/pastelgoth.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/author_jennettemccurdy.png?resize=75%2C75&amp;ssl=1 75w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Jennette McCurdy got her start in child acting, which by her late teen years had brought her success (she starred in Nickelodeon&#8217;s hit show iCarly and her own spin-off, Sam &amp; Cat). She went on to star in the Netflix series Between, and had a short-lived country music career with Capitol Records Nashville. Despite her outside success, McCurdy felt ashamed of 90% of her resume and ultimately unfulfilled, so she turned to alcohol, but since that didn&#8217;t work, she quit acting and began pursuing writing\/directing in 2017. She has written\/directed a pilot and four short films. Her work has been featured in\/on The Hollywood Reporter, Short of the Week, Florida Film Festival, Salute Your Shorts, and many more. She has written articles for Huffington Post and the Wall Street Journal. Her one-woman show \u201cI\u2019m Glad My Mom Died\u201d had a sold-out run at Lyric Hyperion Theatre. She hosts a podcast called \u201cEmpty Inside\u201d, where she speaks with guests about uncomfortable topics.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ubb-author-links\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jennettemccurdy.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\">Website<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/author\/show\/15457334.Jennette_McCurdy\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\">Goodreads<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4gQ7CRl\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\">Amazon<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/jennettemccurdy\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\">Instagram<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Review I barely knew a thing about Jennette McCurdy when I picked up this book. 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